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PostSubject: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 8:32 pm

Hey guys.

I just wanted to make this post just in case the worst happens.
I may not be on for a while, or at all, or very rarely, and I probably won't be as active as I am now, for many reasons.
A lot of stuff is happening in my life right now and I've been busy and stressed out on top of this. It is really really hard to find the motivation to get on anymore.
That, and I really need time to be alone. If you knew what was happening, you would understand. I don't want you guys to think I'm just being lazy or something, but y'all need to understand sometimes people just need to take a break from everything. So, yeah.
If you really want to know what's going on, an extremely abbreviated version of the story is that my mom is very ill and my father and I can no longer take care of her so she is moving out to have professional care at a care home. My parents are also getting divorced because of this. My mom's illness is so bad that her neurologist predicts with the rate she is going, in a year from now, she will probably have lost most brain function, and won't remember me or my dad or recognize us. When she reaches this point she probably won't have much longer to live either. So obviously it's a really hard time for me and my family right now. I feel like she is already gone sometimes, she doesn't remember our cats names and sometimes forgets my name when I talk to her. It's just overall a bad situation and I hope you guys understand that if I'm acting distant or weird or not getting on much it's just because I feel a lot of grief right now and it's hard...so..yeah.
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 8:37 pm

OMG I am sooo sorry Abbey! I can see that this is a really tough time for you. I hope your mother will get better, and I wish your family the best. <3
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 8:38 pm

Thats so sad. I'm very sorry to hear this and hopefully things will get better.
Best wishes from FF, we all are your friends.
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 8:39 pm

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OMG I am sooo sorry Abbey! I can see that this is a really tough time for you. I hope your mother will get better, and I wish your family the best. <3
Thanks for your thoughts, but trust me, she's not getting better. We are waaaaay past the point of treatments and now it's just getting her professional care so we can prolong whatever time she has left. But thank you guys.
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 8:40 pm

im sorry all these apologizes probably sound really fake and are probably helping you even less sorry for that too.

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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 8:41 pm

Aww. I'm very sorry to hear about that.
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 8:41 pm

Don't worry and stay strong! I hope your mother will get better soon, we all understand. Smile
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 8:51 pm

I just cried :<

I'm so so so so sorry for what's happening with your family right now. Stay strong! You'll always have people that will care and love for you and your mother and father. I hope for the best of you and your family right now. I wish I could comfort you in someway but any attempt of saying I understand would be a lie. I just want you to know that my unconditional love is definitely directed towards you and your family right now and that I'm keeping you are your family in my prayers and thoughts right now. Best of luck to you Abbey :c
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 8:58 pm

Wow :'( I hope she gets healed </333 I bless you and your family Sad and ill pray for your mother as well.
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 9:03 pm

I see. Well I feel bad for you but just want to say keep up the great work you've done. Exclamation Very Happy Very Happy
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 9:06 pm

hugs you,,,
but wow im really sorry ; A ;

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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 9:54 pm

That's really sad. I hope your mother gets better! Let's hope that a miracle will happen. Just remember that we (FF) will support your family through these hard times...
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sat Dec 15, 2012 10:29 pm

I am so sorry to hear that! I hope something magical will happen to your mother, stay strong don't give up hope. I did that with my grandma and she is still alive. Best of luck to you and your family
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sun Dec 16, 2012 2:42 pm

wow i can't imagine what you must be going through. i really do hope your mother can enjoy all that is still ahead of her, even if it's not much. i guess, just try to make the best of it?? i'm so sorry i don't know what to say. i really wish i could help more.
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sun Dec 16, 2012 3:03 pm

I'm really sorry! :c God, this all sounds so stressing. I wish you and your family the best.
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sun Dec 16, 2012 3:09 pm

I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope your mom feels better. Stay strong, Abbey.
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Sun Dec 16, 2012 5:39 pm

Relora wrote:
I just cried :<

I'm so so so so sorry for what's happening with your family right now. Stay strong! You'll always have people that will care and love for you and your mother and father. I hope for the best of you and your family right now. I wish I could comfort you in someway but any attempt of saying I understand would be a lie. I just want you to know that my unconditional love is definitely directed towards you and your family right now and that I'm keeping you are your family in my prayers and thoughts right now. Best of luck to you Abbey :c


Aw shucks guys, you have no idea how much your words mean to me. I just think it's really great that people on the internet are supportive even though they've never met me. But yeah. I'm in a really weird state of mind right now. I feel like it's not happening and I feel okay for now but the reality is still there and it sucks. But thank you guys for your support and stuff. I'm bad with tHANKS IM SORRY.....
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Mon Dec 17, 2012 3:58 pm

Oh, I'm so sorry. I can't imagine going through what's happening to you right now. I wish the best to you and your family.
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Wed Dec 19, 2012 10:43 pm

im so sorry abbey
i would really feel sad if that happened to me
i almost cried but i kept it in
and again im so srry
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Wed Dec 19, 2012 10:55 pm

Omg, im so sorry to hear that, i cant imagine what youre going through. I hope everything gets better *hugs*
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Thu Dec 20, 2012 6:47 am

I am really sorry Abbey. I wish the best for you and your family. I would cry if that happened to me. If i said i felt you pain, i would be lying right now. Stay stong, and think about the good times you had with your mom.
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PostSubject: Re: Yo this is kind of important so   Thu Dec 20, 2012 6:07 pm

Dang.. that's a lot to go through, through such a small period of time. I don't think I could imagine what you're feeling at the moment, this actually makes all my problems sound good. I can't really help but... I hope you and your mother enjoy the time that you have together now, and please don't cry about it. : (

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