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Relora
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PostSubject: Help me...   Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:23 pm

...talk to a boy I've never actually talked to before :L


I'm really really bad at conversations, but there's this guy I think is really good looking and well-rounded and I want to get to know him a bit because I kinda have a crush on him...? but I have no idea how to approach him or if I should even bother >.<

I see him every morning at breakfast and I think that he's only really noticed me a few times. Once being the first day of school when I was going to breakfast. I pass him a lot of the time between classes, specifically between 1st and 2nd... I really want to talk to him... but I don't know how to start a conversation without coming off as weird or something qq



Please help :c
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PostSubject: Re: Help me...   Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:26 pm

start off with.... a starter! just start with "Hey, I know you from breakfast! I'm _____ (relora???), it's nice to finally officially meet you!" talk to him a little, then ask if he wants to come over later. 
There you go!


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PostSubject: Re: Help me...   Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:28 pm

That could work... but I'm a bit of a shrinking violet... and not exactly good with social interaction... especially if I'm nervous... so.... anyone to help not me nervous xD?
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PostSubject: Re: Help me...   Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:30 pm

Wait until he's alone. If he's with his mates, chances are he won't pay full attention to you. When the time's right, go up to him and introduce yourself, starting with your name. Try to kick up the conversation by talking about something you think he'd be interested in. Ask him about a movie or something. Then, after you've talked, ask to exchange numbers! {Assuming you've got a cellphone.}

About being nervous, BE CONFIDENT! Don't make him see that you're worried. Be confident and approach him with an optimistic personality. If he's not interested, don't show him you're hurt; shrug it off and be happy. Let him know what he missed out on. c:
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PostSubject: Re: Help me...   Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:42 pm

Sucks that I don't have a cellphone... but I have facebook, we could probably use that xD

I take it however, I shouldn't smile like a freak haha? But asides from smiling, how can I show confidence? I've never really gotten a hold of that x3x


and how do I instill confidence within myself when I'm shaking like a leaf at the very thought of talking to a guy.
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PostSubject: Re: Help me...   Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:47 pm

Relora wrote:
Sucks that I don't have a cellphone... but I have facebook, we could probably use that xD

I take it however, I shouldn't smile like a freak haha? But asides from smiling, how can I show confidence? I've never really gotten a hold of that x3x


and how do I instill confidence within myself when I'm shaking like a leaf at the very thought of talking to a guy.
Other than smiling, be open to conversation. Like, talk with enthusiasm and be interested in the conversation. C:
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PostSubject: Re: Help me...   Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:48 pm

Mk.... what happens if the conversation dies though? How can I pick it back up o:?
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PostSubject: Re: Help me...   Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:49 pm

ommggg!!
Ok so I've typed this reply like 15 different times... but every time I realize my advICe is SO useLESS cuz I'm like the shyest person on the planet, and I am really bad at talking to new people >n<

Try to find out what he's interested in maybe?? like stalk him and follow him around to see what tv shows he watches or what websites he goes on NO JK BUT SERIOUSLY think of one of your FAVORITE THINGS then imagine an attractive person of the opposite gender having knowledge of that thing and also liking that thing. YOU WOULD TOTES FREAK OUT RIGHT? I'm sure that;s what he would feel too!! :3 maybe he likes minecraft? or anime? or gravity falls (oH GOSH if he likes gravity falls plz just marry him kk))

FOR CONFIDENCE: ummmmm remember you are kawaii?? no soz I don't know how to have confidence um

hahah but yeah sorry this is long and probably doesn't make sense um
GOOD LUCK!! You'll be gr9 at talking to him C:
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PostSubject: Re: Help me...   Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:51 pm

Nice reply I like the eregy xD


I do know that he plays football and I think he is on the track team? Maybe I can talk about that o:
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