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PostSubject: Question?! life!?!   Wed Oct 09, 2013 3:15 pm

Kk so i know sum of u have crushes or boyfriends or breakups cuz most of u r older and mature

Like i need advice cuz i got a boy problem!! i have a crush on dis guy in my class.cuz he makes me smie and i dont know the feeling to hav a crush. But i lik.him . Am i to young for a bf cuz dis giirl who is 10 be sayimg i got a bf and we kissed and ew. In my grade boys rnt gross no more. timmy (the bou) i wanna tll to him but wen i do i cry cuz i think he mite say we r just good friends or eww ur stoopid. Help adive? I dont know dese type of stuff so try explaining it fluentlty
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Wed Oct 09, 2013 4:01 pm

Ok. It's ok to like a boy, but having boyfriends in elementary school is pretty dumb and won't really do anything for you..Unless you wanna hold hands in gym or the hallway LOLOLOL sorry

That's just what I think. But don't neglect your work.
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Wed Oct 09, 2013 4:22 pm

I'm not sure where I should begin, but here are my two cents . .

In my opinion, elementary kids are a bit too immature and young to be in a relationship, whether it be a short or long one. Putting age and maturity aside, I think it would be wise to get to know Timmy more first if you don't already. Are you attracted to his physique and his outer personality? If you do confess and he accepts, then congratulations. Though not knowing who he really is inside might cause some problems and obstacles later in your relationship.

Also, that girl who is 10 and already has had her first kiss, must not value it very much.
Good luck, anyways~.


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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Wed Oct 09, 2013 4:34 pm

Save relationships for high school. That's when they really mean something.
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Wed Oct 09, 2013 4:54 pm

Um, yeah. I'm not going to go full rant about this topic but I agree with everyone else. Save the relationships for high school and up. And you're way too young to be getting a boyfriend and whatever, enjoy your life now. Getting a boyfriend should not be the biggest priority for a 10 year old. It may seem all cute and stuff now but majority of the relationships in elementary and middle school end splat in either a few weeks or months. Don't waste your time. However, that doesn't mean you still can't be friends with this boy. I'm sure whatever you're feeling now is what most kids feel when they love someone for the first time. Who knows, maybe it's just lust and not love.
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Wed Oct 09, 2013 5:35 pm

Well relationships shouldnt kinda happen in elementry school but you can have that someone you like.
If you end up liking him in high school (i cant say middle school because your still kinda young to have a boyfriend) maybe you can ask him when your older
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Wed Oct 09, 2013 5:37 pm

I had my first kiss in kindergarten actually.

Anyways, I get how you feel though. I have a crush on this boy and he likes me back. Honestly, I dated 55 boys, but broke up with them.
Don't believe in what that girl said.. She just wants attention. Of course like everyone else says, save it for high school!
But the good part is, he makes you smile.
 usually write a letter that says: "Will you go out with me?
Yes or no?" Only when i'm scared to do it face to face o.o
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Wed Oct 09, 2013 5:52 pm

I have to say, well... Don't  tell him you like him yet because elementary school is too early for love. Since you're a kid, you might not have a good idea if you like a boy or not because kids don't have a good experience for love. If you ask him out now, he could reject you or accept your proposal but later on, he might like another girl. Then, there will be lots of drama, and in the end, you will be left heartbroken. I'm saying this because the people in this forum care about you Carvel. I don't want you to be sad because if you're sad, we feel sad too. Another thing that I'm going to say is that some people change over time, therefore changing your opinion about them. Look at me, my friends changed from being an good "I'm always there for you" friend to being a snotty brat. Excuse me for my language, but that just shows you that SOME people or maybe a lot do change as they age. Maybe Timmy won't ever change but as for now, think of him as your brother, you know what I'm saying? What I'm thinking right now is that Timmy is a kind of friend who likes to make his friends smile because he cares about them as if they're his own siblings. Now, when should you ask Timmy out? My answer is that you should ask him out after you finish school because my parents told me that if you ask a boy out in high school, you may not have enough time to do your homework (not unless you and your boyfriend want to be homework partners). But, they also said that when you're a teenager, you start to become "moody". What I mean by that is that you become more sensitive or "soft" to the events that are happening to you and even around you, start to affect your feelings. Let's say your boyfriend (not Timmy but a random guy who "you really like") broke up with you. If you're an adult, you might say, "Aw shucks, I thought we would get married someday. Meh, whatever." or something like that. Now, if you were a teenager, you might say, "Oh my god, he broke up with me!.... Ugh, I don't need him! He's a... a... a meanie! I can't believe I loved him!" You might be thinking that these two quotes are similar, but the difference is that when you're an adult, you can just forget the guy and move on with life. When you're a teenager, the heart wrenching breakup will stay in your heart and soul for a long time, even if you're a strong girl (my brother had experienced some girls who you would think that they can move on with life after a breakup, but they don't really move on). In MY OPINION, asking a guy out in high school is okay but high school is where all the drama is.

This is all I can say right now because I just woke up (mind is still groggy). All you need to know from me is to ask Timmy out when you're an adult because adults have a good idea about love. If Timmy ever finds his true love before you ask him out, then just think of him as your brother because he's your friend and you don't want to make him sad, right? Besides, you care about him like how you do to your other friends. If you think of Timmy as your brother, then that means that you're pretty close to him. If you and Timmy are close like brother and sister, your relationship will become so strong that it will NEVER break apart (in other words, you can keep Timmy forever).
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Wed Oct 09, 2013 5:56 pm

Waaaayyyy to young!!!!!!!! Wait until you r older like when you r 13!!! That's when everyone gets a boyfriend!!!!! It's ok to like someone though just WAIT. Elementary school and middle school relationships usually only last at the highest about a month!!!


Idk why but at my school if u r 13 and never had a boyfriend u r known as a geek and loser..... Really stinks..
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Wed Oct 09, 2013 6:17 pm

Well.

Yes, you're very young. I would suggest till your older. Nothing is wrong liking Timmy but there is reasons why you shouldn't have a boyfriend at 10? 11? Well, if you date in your grade school, kids won't even pay attention to a relationship. It would be like you guys are just friends because being a relationship is love and affection. That you wouldn't know how to show at that age to a guy. I'm 13 going on 14 and I am in lower secondary school (a.k.a Middle School: in america) I had a boyfriend when I was 12. We lasted for 8 months but we broke up because we lost connection.

You should wait till you find someone perfect for you. And I'm sure you'll find another guy when your older who is just right for you. But if Timmy is right for you, you can always wait till middle school or highschool. Elementary (Im guessing you're in) is a place to have fun, be adorable and have fun. Don't think about having a boyfriend now. You can still like Timmy but remember keep it as friends till your ready.
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Thu Oct 10, 2013 4:58 am

Advice: As someone who was an elementary school male in the past, I'd say if I was the boy you like I'd probably be a little creeped out. I really wasn't into relationships back then, and as of yet I still haven't been in one.

You're a bit young to be dating anyway. I'd say wait until you're 13 or so.
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Thu Oct 10, 2013 5:12 am

i think your too young. well, your older than me, but yea. i think wait until middle school? i dont know. you can be friends with him for now
im giving love advice to someone who is older than me o.o
ok its not really advice my post kinda doesnt help you because everyone already said it
whatever
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Thu Oct 10, 2013 10:25 am

Practically Luminious and Dulce said.

I had a boyfriend. We broke up because of Finnland moving. He was the best bf ever had. I guess I'll find someone in Finnland.
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Thu Oct 10, 2013 10:46 am

i'm 14 and i've never had a boyfriend
but then again i go to a girls school so i never had any opportunities to talk to boys

but anyway here's a piece of advice i found on tumblr that might help:
text him and play 20 questions
try to steer the topic to who you guys like
when he asks you "do you like anyone?"
say "yeah, you."
see what he says. if he rejects you then say this: "*yeah, you?"

also

Spoiler:
 

just sayin'


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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Thu Oct 10, 2013 10:48 am

Electrified♥ wrote:
i'm 14 and i've never had a boyfriend
but then again i go to a girl's school so i never had any opportunities to talk to boys

but anyway here's a piece of advice i found on tumblr that might help:
text him and play 20 questions
try to steer the topic to who you guys like
when he asks you "do you like anyone?"
say "yeah, you."
see what he says. if he rejects you then say this: "*yeah, you?"

also

Spoiler:
 

just sayin'
Don't tell me those &%# means something inapropriate ;_;
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PostSubject: Re: Question?! life!?!   Thu Oct 10, 2013 11:07 am

Larry wrote:
Electrified♥ wrote:
i'm 14 and i've never had a boyfriend
but then again i go to a girl's school so i never had any opportunities to talk to boys

but anyway here's a piece of advice i found on tumblr that might help:
text him and play 20 questions
try to steer the topic to who you guys like
when he asks you "do you like anyone?"
say "yeah, you."
see what he says. if he rejects you then say this: "*yeah, you?"

also

Spoiler:
 

just sayin'
Don't tell me those &%# means something inapropriate ;_;
it is. i just had to ok. that's why i put it in a spoiler and censored it just in case.
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