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|Subject: Help.... Sun Feb 23, 2014 10:08 am|| |
Well, On Friday My two besties, Colbie and Alanna. Also Rebecca (so that makes three gosh) Have been acting funny around me lately, Then When it came to Friday (as i've staded before) I was sitting with them at lunch, Then we spoke for a while and i forgot to lift a spoon for my icecream, So i went up and got a spoon. Then when i got back, I sat down, And they all moved up a chair, Then when i moved with them they either pushed me back or moved up more. A few months ago they stopped speaking to me, They only started speaking to me again about a few weeks ago. Their friend and my friend Eden
was talking to me and she said she would go up and sort it out for them, So she went up and spoke to them and they said ''Kayleigh (my name in real) was annoying us at lunch time so thats why we moved.'' And when Eden came back down i had snapped my bracelet (my favourite one because i pull at things when im annoyed and confused) Then when Eden came back down to me and was speaking to me they walked by and shouted over to her ''DONT LET KAYLEIGH STEAL YOU SHE'S ANNOYING!'' Now i dont even think Eden likes me so im playing with Becky and Kayla (which i played with when they fell out with me before for no reason) And my weekend has been kind of ruined by it because i keep thinking about it, And i keep thinking theres a problem with ME and thats why no one wants to speak to me..So yeah any help/ Advice?
(i put this on forum lounge because its for HELP not explaining my full day)
Ever since i moved to my new school, Which was in 2013. I havent known who my friends actually are because people talk to me, Leave me, then come back and i've been really confused over the months. Then i saw Colbie writing stuff about her best friends and usually she would put me on those lists, but she scored my name out. I have no idea what i've done! Honestly! I was just being normal!
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|Subject: Re: Help.... Sun Feb 23, 2014 11:50 am|| |
They arent gonna kill you if you confront them.
If they say somethin mean, tell an adult!
Simple as that.
I remember once, my friend had a best friend list, I was on it. One day, she asked me to make her an origami box, and i said i didnt have any paper. She told me to buy paper, and I said ill see what i can do. My mom wouldnt allow me to go shopping i told her the next day, and she said that i was the worst friend ever and i didnt deserve to live. Then, she 'accidentally' dropped her best friends list next to my locker, and duh, she wanted me to pick it up, so i picked it up, and my name was crossed out.
What a butt.
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|Subject: Re: Help.... Sun Feb 23, 2014 2:40 pm|| |
Maybe there are other people you can be with? Or you could openly ask them about it. If they're vague or run away from the question, you may want to find new friends.
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|Subject: Re: Help.... Sun Feb 23, 2014 2:47 pm|| |
ahh,, that kinda thing was happening with me too for a couple of months!! (though i found out that it wasnt that they hated me, its that they thought i hated them......... oop) but!! maybe you can ask them about it?? thats how my situation was resolved.... but eeeh occasionally i'm left out of a couple of lists because my friends are still getting used to me,, but i'm getting better!! i think you can do that too! if that doesnt help, try to get a couple of people on your side, and have them back you up if you want to sort it out with them face-to-face! but if you don't want to do that,, you could aways just tell a teacher!
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|Subject: Re: Help.... Mon Feb 24, 2014 6:17 pm|| |
Agh. I seriously hate friends who turn on you and stab you in the back. I've experienced that, and everyone will go through that. (unless you are completely and utterly lovable.. but even then they have reasons to hate a person... so.. )
My advice? Find new friends. Seriously. Don't keep running to them. It just makes them feel great when they push you away and you don't have anyone to go to. It may be hard to find those friends who will always stick with you, but you will find them. Ignore them, unless you like Eden... (Pretty name ^-^) If she chooses them, just move on. It's her loss isn't it?
I had friends like that. We've been friends for 2 years, and they suddenly hate me because one person hated me. (Still don't know why and she moved... so you know...) You will definitely grow apart with a lot of your friends, so it isn't much of a big deal to lose 1 or 2 this early. It would be wonderful if you could find a friend you will be with until adults, but that is highly unlikely. Would be wonderful though.. xD
POINT IS. Forget them if they don't want to be friends, and continue to act all witchy. >.> You know what I mean by...witchy... haha... anyways. Don't give them the satisfaction. >.< Find those special friends you will always be with, and you stick up for them, and them for you. ^-^ I know you can.
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