So confused what to do 3/27/14
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|Subject: So confused what to do 3/27/14 Thu Mar 27, 2014 7:56 pm|| |
Hi everyone, I am in a really tough pickle.
So I have friends (yes I do not a total loner only on this forum lol) and we are having some group trouble. It all started at the beginning of the year. I have this friend Shannon and another named Selena, I have never been really close with Selena. She is super nice though. There was a new kid, Risto, he came in and was like popular and funny right away. He was very nice. Selena met Risto, Selena not that popular at all. Talked for the whole resource they liked eachother, being the loner I am I never told him my name till the 2nd quarter (Our school year is divided into 4 quarters just in case you guys don't know) Selena and Risto were good friends, then one day Risto asks Selena out. They dated till this quarter. They broke up now and are still good friends. But while they were dating Selena changed and Shannon changed. They became best buds out of no where, I didn't really mind. So now to the present we are at the point where Selena and Shannon sit at a whole different lunch table talking to eachother and if you go near them they just yell at us. Selena now told me today they want to find a whole new friend group. I told her okay, and bye. But there was one thing she ment that I would be added to this friend group because me and Shannon are close. I don't want to leave my friend group because I love them all and I have no idea what I would do without them. I still want to keep this friendship with Shannon and Selena but I still want to keep my friendship with my whole group. I have no idea how to work this out. I am really sorry this is so long I just need to vent it all out somewhere and this is the only place I could go.
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|Subject: Re: So confused what to do 3/27/14 Sun Mar 30, 2014 9:00 pm|| |
Tbh I think Selena and Shanon should be left alone, if they don't want to be in your friend group then they can just leave. Selena is a jerk anyways. Shannon is a mini jerk. They aren't good friends for you. They can go and be band loners. You can always ask your awesome sister for advice. (me.)
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|Subject: Re: So confused what to do 3/27/14 Mon Mar 31, 2014 12:37 am|| |
I would say Find a new friend leave Selena and Shannon Because they really just want to be friends with Risto
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|Subject: Re: So confused what to do 3/27/14 Mon Mar 31, 2014 4:22 am|| |
Let them go. If you try to stop them you'll just end up making yourself look really obnoxious.
Besides, you can pick their pockets later.
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|Subject: Re: So confused what to do 3/27/14 Mon Mar 31, 2014 10:16 am|| |
This happened to me when I was in year 7 some girl used to back chat about this other girl an suddenly they became friends and ditched me. If you can find some new friends then go have fun, but seriously if you want to be their friends really bad just go up to them and ask them.
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|Subject: Re: So confused what to do 3/27/14 Mon Mar 31, 2014 4:17 pm|| |
I don't think you need to confine yourself to "groups". You can be friends with whoever you want, and you shouldn't HAVE to leave your old "group" to join a new "group". In other words, "groups" sound kind of stupid????? But otherwise if Selena and Shannon want you away from them, then that's what you should probably do.
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|Subject: Re: So confused what to do 3/27/14 Mon Mar 31, 2014 4:48 pm|| |
Honestly? Just leave Selena and Shannon if they don't want you with them. It didn't seem like you were that close to them in the message your wrote. It sounded like you were just acquaintances. Since you weren't that close to them, I feel like you don't have anything to worry about. ^-^ Things like this happen all the time. You just have to learn to solve them. If they don't want you to hang out with them, then I suggest you give them up. They aren't worth your energy. :3 Just go have fun with your group of friends, and forget their change in attitude. Don't spend your time brooding about some people who don't find you important enough to include you. xP I know it may not be that simple, but this is just something that will seem funny in the future, and you might just laugh at it. Good luck!
|Subject: Re: So confused what to do 3/27/14 Today at 10:53 am|| |