As all the above people said, don't trust strangers. Even your friends at times.
Feelings is not everything, what if she's just not a hacker?
Remember what some users in the Forum said? Make a topic listing all the hackers, who are hackers and those whom you think they are hackers. Its for all, not just candy...
And again, those topics are getting annoying. And I will post on every hacker's topic (that will pop up by time), the same thing. So don't be like, "Oh my! She hates those topics and she yet posts on them."