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Relora Hero Fantagian
Posts : 6776 Join date : 2010-11-30 Age : 26 Location : Define "Location"
| Subject: I am.... Thu Jun 07, 2012 7:01 pm | |
| There aren't many words I can think of at he moment but the best one I can use to describe how I feel toward a majority of you is complete and utter disappointment.
I know the mods went here guys but trolling and behaving as you have isn't going to work (this is coming from a nexon customer and if you know nexon your know what I do for sure). Your complete irresponsibility and hostility towards one of the new members is disgusting and the maturity levels that were once high up there on the foumers are dropping.
There are a few members I'm forcing myself not to recognize. Their outright blatant trolling and malicious behavior has really grinded my gears these last few weeks. More over the last few days. And I am without a doubt sure they target this thread.
I'm also angry over the fact that no one has stood up for the victims. Come on guys I know some of you pretty well but surprisingly none of you have spoken up.
The mods not being here is no excuse for you behavior. Stay strong guys, please.
*due to the limitations of my iPhone I can't post everything and there Re probably a few wod mistakes please excuse this* | |
| | | Abstract Veteran Fantagian
Posts : 4563 Join date : 2010-07-14 Age : 23 Location : (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻ Somewhere flipping tables
| Subject: Re: I am.... Thu Jun 07, 2012 7:07 pm | |
| - Spoiler:
Ah it is okay, happens to me if I try to text.
I have been in many dramas before, I don't know if you consider me one of "those people", but if that is the case, then sorry for the responds I've made then. :C And I do agree, I just wish we would have more mods now, or at least we could finally nominate one already. But yes, that shouldn't be the case, we shouldn't be acting as immature as we may be with or without them.
And like I said, I have been posting way to much to those topics, but it is so annoying.
I soo agree. | |
| | | Dog Loyal Fantagian
Posts : 1607 Join date : 2012-06-03 Age : 24 Location : I forgot.
| Subject: Re: I am.... Thu Jun 07, 2012 7:11 pm | |
| I'm not exactly sure who the "victims" are here, because people seem to be confused about that. But I definetly agree with you. I don't think Fantage Forum was like this before I joined, and I have no idea why I am the cause of this. I was new. If my topics were immature and pointless, I didn't realize it. Everyone makes mistakes, and life is all about experimenting. As a new member of fantage forum, I was experimenting with what topics people enjoyed and what topics they don't. And now I have a better idea. So everybody, you know who you are, if you have a mean comments about my topics, don't post them. Please keep them to yourself! | |
| | | Squirtle Ultimate Fantagian
Posts : 8791 Join date : 2011-12-04 Age : 21 Location : Somewhere
| Subject: Re: I am.... Thu Jun 07, 2012 7:33 pm | |
| i am glad you posted this topic. i am really sorry if i posted any mean comments, and now i am trying to stand u for everyone who feels as if they are being bullied or if they are in a bad sintuation. | |
| | | Abbey Former Staff
Posts : 1462 Join date : 2010-07-18 Age : 25 Location : IG @the.abbsta
| Subject: Re: I am.... Thu Jun 07, 2012 9:03 pm | |
| It's funny because those who are perfectly mature and innocent are worrying it's them but then the ones who are doing it don't acknowledge it at all. | |
| | | S Dedicated Fantagian
Posts : 1417 Join date : 2010-02-06 Age : 19 Location : sad town
| Subject: Re: I am.... Thu Jun 07, 2012 9:07 pm | |
| Very well said Relora.
Now that I am a full moderator, some of this will be put to a stop. | |
| | | Angus Bethune Loyal Fantagian
Posts : 1889 Join date : 2010-02-02 Age : 23
| Subject: Re: I am.... Thu Jun 07, 2012 9:18 pm | |
| - Abbey wrote:
- It's funny because those who are perfectly mature and innocent are worrying it's them but then the ones who are doing it don't acknowledge it at all.
FF member logic is all I can say. | |
| | | Sky Senior Fantagian
Posts : 346 Join date : 2012-02-11 Age : 28 Location : Minecraft
| Subject: Re: I am.... Thu Jun 07, 2012 9:18 pm | |
| Even though I'm not a mod, and I'm not THAT mature, (I think people mistake the word immature for humorous), I totally agree, but calling us hostile towards members (or one member) is not really nice. I also agree with Abbey because every time I see fights go on, either on chats related to the forum or just the forum, NOBODY (except a few), and don't get me wrong but ever since iv'e been here nobody admitted they started a fight. I too start fights, for example my Moderator post, on that post, I saw what was going on, but I admitted. I have no idea what I just said and will never say it again. | |
| | | cynthia Dedicated Fantagian
Posts : 1064 Join date : 2011-07-15 Age : 24 Location : Spudsville; 1234 Potato Lane.
| Subject: Re: I am.... Thu Jun 07, 2012 9:50 pm | |
| If I ever offended any of the victims in any way, I am very very sorry. And to any of the Victims still here please stay and give us one more chance. I'm very sure everyone here, including me, has made some stupid post or topic, but we didn't get insulted as much as the victims. I'm very proud of any Victims still here, mainly because it takes guts to stay strong while being rained on by a shower of insults. Once when I joined a forum, I made a pretty stupid topic. I got insulted and trolled, and I left. So to the Victims that are left, you guys inspire me.
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| | | o Veteran Fantagian
Posts : 4270 Join date : 2011-11-11 Age : 23
| Subject: Re: I am.... Thu Jun 07, 2012 11:05 pm | |
| Thank you, Relora. I don't know if I can say how grateful I am to you for posting this. On one topic, I even said "I'm not even going to try to explain this" because I was just as upset as you are with everyone's behavior. I understand that the people who were making others feel bad were likely saying the truth, but when you say the truth to simply bring somebody down and make yourself feel superior, that's just unkind. Also, I know that the people who felt hurt were trying to stand up for themselves, but I think that they were a bit too hardcore at times.
For example, you would have one person say something like, "Grow up. This is the internet, so of course it's not fair" to a "victim", and then the "victim" would type something like, "BUT YOU'RE BEING MEAN AND IF YOU THINK YOU'RE NOT CYBER-BULLYING, THEN YOU SHOULD GET YOUR FACTS RIGHT." Guys, I understand that it's very hard to be kind to somebody that hurts you. I know that people who feel hurt or insulted often say things they don't mean or normally say. But listen, even though it's hard, I would really like everyone here to at least make an effort to think about something before you say it.
Try to be better, please. Heck, I don't post half of the things I say because I often decide that it's not worth posting in that topic. In order to be truly nice to others, you not only have to think about what you say, but when and where to say it, and if what you have to say is even worth saying. Like animal_lover said, if you've got nothing nice to say, don't say it.
I do apologize that my message seems unkind towards a lot of people, and it appears that I'm acting hypocritical. However, even though this may not be a perfectly nice thing for me to say, it needs to be said so that people will be nicer. Please understand. | |
| | | alex Moderator
Posts : 23507 Join date : 2010-08-10 Age : 24 Location : google maps
| Subject: Re: I am.... Fri Jun 08, 2012 8:35 am | |
| - S wrote:
- Very well said Relora.
Now that I am a full moderator, some of this will be put to a stop. Thank you. ;w; I agree with you completely, just becaause there's somewhat of a lack of staff at the moment doesn't mean that anyone can do what they want (although that seems to be happening..) If we could appoint or nominate some people as future moderators or something, I'd nomiate Relora without a doubt. Oh, and yeah, that happens to me a lot too. I'm using my phone right now, lol. | |
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