| Guide-How to stop bullies at school. | |
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Weekays Expert Fantagian
Posts : 2616 Join date : 2011-07-24 Age : 21 Location : rlly
| Subject: Guide-How to stop bullies at school. Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:59 am | |
| If you are being bullied. Ignore. Ignore them If they come up to you put your fingers in your ears and say bla bla bla or something like that. Or just pretend they arent there. Dont get very angry Try now to get very angry keep calm and strong. Because some bullies will go tell on you for getting angry at them. Tell a teacher If its not to bad, Tell a teacher. Also tell your parents. This may stop it but if it gets really bad maybe further things will go on Hit them back with their own medicine If they are bullying you because of something E.G Your underwear. There is a few ways you can do this rule. 1. go out and buy the same thing as them, If they bully you because of it say you have them too!. 2.Tell them theres isnt better 3. Say Stop being nosy i can wear what i want. Hit back [not very much to be used] If it turns into hitting and nothing can be done about it. If they hit you first. hit them back. Sometimes this works and if you get in trouble for it but the bullies gone. be thankful that you are safe from bullies for sometime.! What to do if a friends being bullied back them up if your friend is being bullied. dont get fully involved in it but back them up. tell your parents tell your parents too, maybe if your friend is scared to tell their parents then just like tell yours and yours maybe tell theirs!
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betty123412 New Fantagian
Posts : 8 Join date : 2012-06-09
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Reese Hero Fantagian
Posts : 6320 Join date : 2012-11-12 Age : 24
| Subject: Re: Guide-How to stop bullies at school. Mon Jan 14, 2013 2:24 pm | |
| Thanks for the tips! I used to get bullied when I was young, this will be helpful to those who need it. ^^ Could you do one guide about cyber-bullying? | |
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Squirtle Ultimate Fantagian
Posts : 8791 Join date : 2011-12-04 Age : 21 Location : Somewhere
| Subject: Re: Guide-How to stop bullies at school. Mon Jan 14, 2013 2:34 pm | |
| I get bullied a lot, thanks for the tips! | |
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Gabriella Dedicated Fantagian
Posts : 1181 Join date : 2010-04-10 Age : 25
| Subject: Re: Guide-How to stop bullies at school. Mon Jan 14, 2013 2:47 pm | |
| This is a good tip becuase I get bullied in school xD. Thanks! | |
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Mr.Noah Expert Fantagian
Posts : 2629 Join date : 2012-06-27 Age : 26 Location : New York
| Subject: Re: Guide-How to stop bullies at school. Mon Jan 14, 2013 7:16 pm | |
| Ignoring works up to a point. It's not that you're supposed to outright ignore a bully (since that in and of itself is a reaction) it's that you're supposed to just brush them off as best as you can.
Of course, with severe bullying that doesn't work much at all. Part of the problem is that while ignoring might work on a single bully, it doesn't work with groups of them since at that point the bullying has become a game or routine for the bullies. For example, if you have a school bus full of kids picking on you then chances are none of them really care about your reaction since they're doing it as a group activity. The only way that ignoring makes things better is that it doesn't make things worse like giving a reaction would.
So,Ignoring might no always work.I advise you to tell your parent/or teacher maybe a school guidance counselor will work too! | |
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Daisy Veteran Fantagian
Posts : 3369 Join date : 2011-12-22 Age : 24 Location : In Hell, With Sebastian..
| Subject: Re: Guide-How to stop bullies at school. Wed Jan 16, 2013 5:57 am | |
| Agree with the ignoring. Well, I'm practicing to have more patience on myself so that I can't blow.. lol..
Well, If they bullied you tell them.
'' Judge yourself first before you judge others ''
Thats what I tell to them and yeah, sometimes they are speechless.
And then tell them this to..
'' I won't get hurt with your bullies word because its not true. ''
For telling the teachers its to fast. They will even bully you more because your telling others. If they are bullying you bully them back. You should think fast bully words to them too so that they'll lose. Its just like a game.
Just think of it as a game so that you won't get angry easily. When they will bully you some hurtful words. Just laugh because some of them will stop. And if they still don't stop tell them some words like they say to you too.
Examples:
Bully 1: Hahahah! You're sooooooooo ugly. Me: hahahahaha!!! I know I know. Look I have mirror. ( Then put it on his/her face then say. ) Can you see that ugly person on the mirror too?.
Then they will stop because they will get irritated.
If they will push you or punch you or kick you Just say.
'' Ouch! That hurts. You're kicking my butt? You must be jealous because I have a nice one and you have an ugly butt. Then if they will punch you Run to the teacher and tell them. If they will push you. Push them back!..''
If they will bully you everyday go tell your parents first then I'm sure your parents will tell the teachers are punish the bullies. | |
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Weekays Expert Fantagian
Posts : 2616 Join date : 2011-07-24 Age : 21 Location : rlly
| Subject: Re: Guide-How to stop bullies at school. Wed Jan 16, 2013 11:23 am | |
| Thanks noah and Miku for posting more stuff on this ^-^ i know im not very detailed at times so thanks! ^-^ | |
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Daisy Veteran Fantagian
Posts : 3369 Join date : 2011-12-22 Age : 24 Location : In Hell, With Sebastian..
| Subject: Re: Guide-How to stop bullies at school. Thu Jan 17, 2013 5:18 am | |
| Lol.. Its okay weekays.. ^^ I was just sharing my options also because I'm also a bullied girl.. They also bully me lol sooo I do those things I wrote xD and now.. They are not bullying me anymore!. | |
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