Horrible Day {January 25th,2013}

UGH.
Today was the WORST.
Me and these 2 girls got into a fight... I really want to be friends with them but the fight is getting so bad I don't think we will be friends again... It started this morning when I was just trying to talk to one of them. She was studying for a test so she kept yelling at me just because I wanted to tell her something really quick and then she could go back to studying! BUT NOOO. Then our teacher said we could study with each other in groups. I was going to ask if she wanted to study with me when suddenly this other girl came over and asked her first. So I was like, "Hey, can I--" and I was trying to ask to study with them, but she cut me off and was like "WE DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU! We're studying!!!".... the rest of the day they ignored me until recess. My friends kept telling me they were talking about me behind my back... And I tried to walk past one of them and then this girls like "Did you just elbow her?!" and I said no thinking what the heck I didn't do anything...?! And UGHHHH! I got annoyed so I left. And I forgot in music class they were ignoring me too until this guy was like "How old are you 12, 11, 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5," and stuff and I'm like "Why does it matter?" And the girl butted in saying "She's 10!!!" I'm like omfg you know I'm not 10. -.- I walked away and sat by myself because no one wanted to sit by me until the same guy blurted out: "look she's crying like a crybaby" and whatever. I wasn't even crying...
To make it worse I got home and went on FaceBook and she made a post about me:
You need to STOP with your attitude because I'm not the one!!!!! You think u could just talk about people behind their back well NOT me next time u try to blame things on me there will be a fight!!!! I'm going to tell this to your face to!!!! And you know who you are!!! Next time tell it to my face not on a message!!!!
She said that because somebody told her I posted something about her on FB... which I didn't.
THIS DAY IS HORRIBLE.

Report the post to a teacher. That's what I did when ppl were posting about me. They got arrested.

That sounds horrible! :c The girl was really rude..I think maybe you should tell someone, maybe your parents? I don't know what they'll do, but they might try to help. Or a teacher, or someone you trust, like your best friend? They could help you, maybe.

akinabear wrote:

Report the post to a teacher. That's what I did when ppl were posting about me. They got arrested.

I dunno if I want her arrested yet {YETTTTTT} but if it gets any worse I'll take your advice ): Thanks

*hugs* Omg that sounds awful! You really need to find a way to talk to her about how you feel. If you don't feel like you should, ignore her (like you should).

Spoiler:

I wish you luck, I don't know what else to say though, I've never been in a real fight with a friend yet, so yeah. I'd listen to the other posts of course.

Abstract wrote:

*hugs* Omg that sounds awful! You really need to find a way to talk to her about how you feel. If you don't feel like you should, ignore her (like you should).

Spoiler:

I wish you luck, I don't know what else to say though, I've never been in a real fight with a friend yet, so yeah. I'd listen to the other posts of course.

I was thinking about talking to our school Guidance Counselor but it might make things worse because she'll get mad at me.
On FB I posted something saying~
Wow some people take everything way too seriously and its annoying.
Yeah, it WASNT aimed directly at them but in general a lot of people. She commented saying~
Just Like You
And I was like .... -.-
AGHREOJIGEOIJTGEO"OG:WEHNOEGMFNJNWHN"GNWE:GN
I slapped my keyboard cuz I was angry.
We had a whole conversation that's actually still going on.... FIGHTING IS HARD.
You're so lucky you've never been in a fight with a friend. It's painfull :c

Just forget about this day. Tomorrow might be better! You can't change what has happened already, so you might as well let it go. And as Rin said, I hope you feel better ^^

Okay I'm ticked off. Not at you of course but those girls. I mean they are WHINY, RUDE, STUPID, BRATS, and they were like really horrible to you when you were being nice.
I mean the whole FACEBOOK POST is over the top. Its abusing Facebook and she even LIED about you? That's horrible! I wish I knew them so I could teach then a lesson.
Heck they're probably too young to even USE Facebook, like aren't they 10-12 or something? I mean I used to lie about my age on sites, its okay in my opinion as long if the person isn't doing anything stupid, but the heck they are bad mouthing you, a very very nice person. I mean, should they look at themselves? It seems like too me that they are the worth of trash.

You shouldn't try to argue back but I can't Blake you, it can't be helped sometimes. But try getting a larger power to side you up, a adult. Trust me, as soon as they get in the picture, the girls will be cowering. Even if they lie, you can just explain it on your own to the adult. Best choices are parent or teacher.

I hope things will get better soon and I know how you feel. Hope your day becomes better soon.

haters always gonna hate. don't give the satisfaction of your attention. they must really think your something special if they want to bother you so much.

Silent Night wrote:

akinabear wrote:

Report the post to a teacher. That's what I did when ppl were posting about me. They got arrested.

I dunno if I want her arrested yet {YETTTTTT} but if it gets any worse I'll take your advice ): Thanks

I'm pretty sure you should just report her to your parent or some adult at school. It doesn't matter if she gets in jail. In fact I'd cheer if she was. Okay that was mean of me but whatever.
Anyways back to the point. If she's hurting you, take action. NOW. This could get worse. If she has the nerve to post this on Facebook what's next? Its possible she could go to the extremes and make a whole BLOG dedicating to hating people at your school and have a whole page on you or worse.
Either way just tell an adult. If I were you, I could care less about how she feels, if she's being a butt, then let her be a butt, and just go get an adult.

Clockwork Invention wrote:

Silent Night wrote:

akinabear wrote:

Report the post to a teacher. That's what I did when ppl were posting about me. They got arrested.

I dunno if I want her arrested yet {YETTTTTT} but if it gets any worse I'll take your advice ): Thanks

I'm pretty sure you should just report her to your parent or some adult at school. It doesn't matter if she gets in jail. In fact I'd cheer if she was. Okay that was mean of me but whatever.
Anyways back to the point. If she's hurting you, take action. NOW. This could get worse. If she has the nerve to post this on Facebook what's next? Its possible she could go to the extremes and make a whole BLOG dedicating to hating people at your school and have a whole page on you or worse.
Either way just tell an adult. If I were you, I could care less about how she feels, if she's being a butt, then let her be a butt, and just go get an adult.

That's right. Facebook can lead to something worse. Hate-blogs, like Clockwork said, are very popular. Just think of adults as your best friends and they can guide you through these hard times.

Clockwork Invention wrote:

Silent Night wrote:

akinabear wrote:

Report the post to a teacher. That's what I did when ppl were posting about me. They got arrested.

I dunno if I want her arrested yet {YETTTTTT} but if it gets any worse I'll take your advice ): Thanks

I'm pretty sure you should just report her to your parent or some adult at school. It doesn't matter if she gets in jail. In fact I'd cheer if she was. Okay that was mean of me but whatever.
Anyways back to the point. If she's hurting you, take action. NOW. This could get worse. If she has the nerve to post this on Facebook what's next? Its possible she could go to the extremes and make a whole BLOG dedicating to hating people at your school and have a whole page on you or worse.
Either way just tell an adult. If I were you, I could care less about how she feels, if she's being a butt, then let her be a butt, and just go get an adult.

Hehe. Arresting isn't really necessary I know...
But, thanks everybody for the supportive comments. ToT You guys being so nice is like a second family, kind of.
Just now I posted this~
ok
I will explain something most people wont understand but if you've ever fought with a friend maybe you will
Fighting with a friend tears at your heart it makes you cry when your alone you feel like nobody cares the world is against you and nothing will get better you just want everything to end but it wont life goes on and on eventually you forgive eachother but things aren't the same deep inside theres still anger and sadness and it will never go away constantly you worry if your friendship will ever be the same but the truth is it wont and you know it but you laugh with each other anyways and things are kind of the same but they wont be like it was before unless you just
forgive
and
forget
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Yeah basically I just wanted to vent a little... and she actually LIKED the post. So, I don't know if that's a good thing? She didn't comment, just liked it. Maybe things are looking up?
I really want to be her friend but... fighting with her is like fighting with a bear, chances of winning are SLIM.
Thank Gosh it's Friday and I don't have to see her until Monday, because I don't know what I'm going to say to her.

Silent Night wrote:

Clockwork Invention wrote:

Silent Night wrote:

akinabear wrote:

Report the post to a teacher. That's what I did when ppl were posting about me. They got arrested.

I dunno if I want her arrested yet {YETTTTTT} but if it gets any worse I'll take your advice ): Thanks

I'm pretty sure you should just report her to your parent or some adult at school. It doesn't matter if she gets in jail. In fact I'd cheer if she was. Okay that was mean of me but whatever.
Anyways back to the point. If she's hurting you, take action. NOW. This could get worse. If she has the nerve to post this on Facebook what's next? Its possible she could go to the extremes and make a whole BLOG dedicating to hating people at your school and have a whole page on you or worse.
Either way just tell an adult. If I were you, I could care less about how she feels, if she's being a butt, then let her be a butt, and just go get an adult.

Hehe. Arresting isn't really necessary I know...
But, thanks everybody for the supportive comments. ToT You guys being so nice is like a second family, kind of.
Just now I posted this~
ok
I will explain something most people wont understand but if you've ever fought with a friend maybe you will
Fighting with a friend tears at your heart it makes you cry when your alone you feel like nobody cares the world is against you and nothing will get better you just want everything to end but it wont life goes on and on eventually you forgive eachother but things aren't the same deep inside theres still anger and sadness and it will never go away constantly you worry if your friendship will ever be the same but the truth is it wont and you know it but you laugh with each other anyways and things are kind of the same but they wont be like it was before unless you just
forgive
and
forget
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Yeah basically I just wanted to vent a little... and she actually LIKED the post. So, I don't know if that's a good thing? She didn't comment, just liked it. Maybe things are looking up?
I really want to be her friend but... fighting with her is like fighting with a bear, chances of winning are SLIM.
Thank Gosh it's Friday and I don't have to see her until Monday, because I don't know what I'm going to say to her.

I assume she liked your post to make you feel better, but inside she's still mean. A "like" doesn't mean anything at all, it's just a mean nudge.

I'm kinds confused. Was she your friend before or you wanted to be her friend?

I know, I fought with friends before. But sometimes its just not meant to be. Its okay, your going to live a long life, she's only a small part.

Clockwork Invention wrote:

I'm kinds confused. Was she your friend before or you wanted to be her friend?

I know, I fought with friends before. But sometimes its just not meant to be. Its okay, your going to live a long life, she's only a small part.

We were friends before. I tried to be the best friend I could be, I don't know what went wrong.... When she felt lonely I was there for her, when she fought with her other friends I was there for her, basically I was there for her ALL the time.

Silent Night wrote:

Clockwork Invention wrote:

I'm kinds confused. Was she your friend before or you wanted to be her friend?

I know, I fought with friends before. But sometimes its just not meant to be. Its okay, your going to live a long life, she's only a small part.

We were friends before. I tried to be the best friend I could be, I don't know what went wrong.... When she felt lonely I was there for her, when she fought with her other friends I was there for her, basically I was there for her ALL the time.

I'm going to say this. If she screws up on you for no reason, then don't even look at her.
You were there for her and now she's twisting little lies on he keyboard and bad mouthing you? Thats disgusting. I mean let her live her life. She chose to be a butt and so she's a butt.
Its not your fault. Its hers.

Tell sometimes its better not to tell the teacher because sometimes teachers are on the other side and not yours. And for the parents also they will just say. '' Its just a kid fight.'' So its a nice Idea to tell us here.

Well, For your problem. Try to ignore them. Just like if they are talking to you like you didn't listen. And stop forcing yourself to become friends of them because I know they are really have to friends with again.

Miku wrote:

Tell sometimes its better not to tell the teacher because sometimes teachers are on the other side and not yours.

This is the reason.

Miku also wrote:

And for the parents also they will just say. '' Its just a kid fight.''

Actually when I tell my mom... well... My mom's advice sometimes isn't that helpful to be honest. :c

Silent Night wrote:

Miku wrote:

Tell sometimes its better not to tell the teacher because sometimes teachers are on the other side and not yours.

This is the reason.

Miku also wrote:

And for the parents also they will just say. '' Its just a kid fight.''

Actually when I tell my mom... well... My mom's advice sometimes isn't that helpful to be honest. :c

Well yes that's true. But she was the one posting horrible thing about you. And your mom doesn't have to give advice, she should take action!
I'd tell your mom now if I were you and show her what that girl said.

Alright well I just posted this~
I feel like I have an emotional problem with the way I feel about myself
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{DONT ASK WHY... It's just the way people view me will make me view myself differently and its kinda like depression but not... I DONT WANNA EXPLAIN.}
Soo she commented this.~
Listen Silent you were one of my best friends I don't know if you still are but I just want you to know even if u aren't my friend I still care about you no matter how bad are fights are you will still be my friend to me we had bad fights but we were still friends but I hope that's what happens this time to because your really nice and your a good friend and you care about people!!!!!!
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I NEED HELP UGH...
I know you guys keep telling me to just tell an adult and stuff... Ignore her... But if you were in my position it would be different. I don't have many friends in real life to be honest... I don't want to risk this friendship... I think in time things can be OK again... right?

My day was like yours. And my freind just called and said "ME AND ___(im not saying the name) ARE HAVING A SLEEP OVER!" Then she gave it to her friend, and she said "HIII!!" Then I heard her say "SHE TOLD ME THAT I WAS STUPID AND STUFF" Then my friend got mad at me. I did not even say anything..I hope for the best of luck. I hope you feel better.

I would post how sad I have been from my friends, but I post to much of those and this is your topic, so...

Silent Night wrote:

Alright well I just posted this~
I feel like I have an emotional problem with the way I feel about myself
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{DONT ASK WHY... It's just the way people view me will make me view myself differently and its kinda like depression but not... I DONT WANNA EXPLAIN.}
Soo she commented this.~
Listen Silent you were one of my best friends I don't know if you still are but I just want you to know even if u aren't my friend I still care about you no matter how bad are fights are you will still be my friend to me we had bad fights but we were still friends but I hope that's what happens this time to because your really nice and your a good friend and you care about people!!!!!!
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I NEED HELP UGH...
I know you guys keep telling me to just tell an adult and stuff... Ignore her... But if you were in my position it would be different. I don't have many friends in real life to be honest... I don't want to risk this friendship... I think in time things can be OK again... right?

Tell her you feel the same. I'm assuming its a apology from her I guess so yeah.

Just relax because being not relax can make more trouble. >.> But my best advice is just ignore the people who hurt you.

that happend crybaby thing happend to me on the bus ( nothing else becuase my friends nobody has facebook at my age ) but im very sensiteve so when the sayd i was crying i started crying BUT it got even worse they sayd i was crying before i was trying to get ppl to sit down ( " I DONT WANT ANY BODY TO GET HURT " ) then after i was crying she said PPL DONT SIT WITH HER SHES A CRY BABY next day i sat alone on the bus : (