Should I stay or go?

BEFORE I CONTINUE- I KNOW IT'S MY CHOICE BUT IT'S TOO FRACKING CONFUSING
And sorry if I made too many topics today

Well, my grandpa just passed away...and my dad has to go to Newfoundland..and it's my choice if i can go or not. I can stay at my friend's for 8 days, or I can stay off the computer and cry all the time in Newfoundland..Please help me choose! I leave to Grand Prairie on the 21st by truck with my aunt uncle and cousin (my cousin is over 10 years older than me!) and my dad, and then we stay in a hotel for the night, get up before 6, and head to the plane...on there for 12 hours! (15 if you count time change)...please help me decide! And the winning vote on the pole is what I'll do..

EDIT: I MADE A VOTE BUT ONLY BECAUSE MY FRIEND SAID STAY AND SHE DOESN'T HAVE AN ACCOUNT HERE >.<

Matryoshka wrote:

BEFORE I CONTINUE- I KNOW IT'S MY CHOICE BUT IT'S TOO FRACKING CONFUSING
And sorry if I made too many topics today

Well, my grandpa just passed away...and my dad has to go to Newfoundland..and it's my choice if i can go or not. I can stay at my friend's for 8 days, or I can stay off the computer and cry all the time in Newfoundland..Please help me choose! I leave to Grand Prairie on the 21st by truck with my aunt uncle and cousin (my cousin is over 10 years older than me!) and my dad, and then we stay in a hotel for the night, get up before 6, and head to the plane...on there for 12 hours! (15 if you count time change)...please help me decide! And the winning vote on the pole is what I'll do..

it's your choice it's ur mind body, and what ever u do it's ur decision! so make up ur mind since we don't control ur life

You have deicde for urself u dont always have to go on and just play sometimes

It is completly up to you but advice does help....
I almost moved to Italy for 7 months and I had alot of my friends beside me helping me on makeing my choice. I think it would be amazing to go to NewfoundLand. You would get to see alot of things and go alot of places. I think it would be alot of fun! But don't base your choice on what other people say. Do what you really want to.and Im so sorry to hear about your grandpa I wish I could give you a hug

I'm really sorry to hear about your grandpa, but now, look's like this is the turning point in life. It is your decision and it's better to follow your heart rather than make a decision that might break you instead. God has given you this choice to test your strength and will power so....it is all up to you. Say, what about your mom?

it's all up to you, if you are still not sure ask your parents for suggestions. They would be able to help you.

Family first...hehe.

Eh well my dad thinks I should go to Newfoundland and my mom and dad are seperated and I'm stuck with my dad, long story.
And I know it's my choice but everything is 50, 50. And it's not like I can stay there for half the time, and come back for the other half that I wish I could

I don't think you should let us decide. This is your choice. What do you want? ^ hehehe i sound like a mother...

i wish i could go places :O i say go! new adventures! : )

..though I do agree with you peace..this is an opportunity...nontheless your decision..

Penny wrote:

I don't think you should let us decide. This is your choice. What do you want? ^ hehehe i sound like a mother...

I know, it's just it feels like one of the hardest choices that I've ever had >__<

Matryoshka wrote:

Penny wrote:

I don't think you should let us decide. This is your choice. What do you want? ^ hehehe i sound like a mother...

I know, it's just it feels like one of the hardest choices that I've ever had >__<

it wont be hard if you don't make it...happiness is a choice

it is...yet you need to step outside of the box,choose whats right for you ^.^

heheh im starting to sound corny....

I dunno if this will help alot but I've had to make this kind of choice three times before. Other peoples advice can make you a bit confused but think of it as you would get to see so many new things and places and you would get to hang around with your dad for awhile. If you stay it would be the same but a bit more relaxed. I usually write down both choices I had and then i'd write all the good things below them. What ever one had more things listed under it I would choose. maybe that will help you with your choice.

maybe u can go for two weeks? just for relaxation but thts mi opinion
and btw tht title reminds meh of a song

I think you should go. Have fun. :3

It's really your choice, not other people's. Choose what your heart really desires :3

if u depend on us to choose then u might depend on us for almost everything! and with that u won't learn to make decisions for YOURSELF

Go...family is better then friends. :3

Sorry to hear about your grandpa.
Ultimately it's your decision, do whaetever you think will make you happier. I'd pick newfoundland myself though.

IN OTHER NEWS MY COUSINS LIVE IN GRAND PRAIRIE

Abbey wrote:

Sorry to hear about your grandpa.
Ultimately it's your decision, do whaetever you think will make you happier. I'd pick newfoundland myself though.

IN OTHER NEWS MY COUSINS LIVE IN GRAND PRAIRIE

XDDD Wouldn't it be the funniest thing if I ran into them?
Anyway thanks, and I know, and thanks again. xD

So far it's go, so if Stay doesn't catch up, I'll tell my dad when he gets home that I'll go.

EDIT: I meant him coming back as in from work. Sometimes he works on Saturdays but like 3 hours before he usually comes back he comes back on Saturday

We can't help you. Go with your heart or the most logical decision best of luck to you.