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Abbey Former Staff
Posts : 1462 Join date : 2010-07-18 Age : 26 Location : IG @the.abbsta
| Subject: Recent Events.. Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:36 pm | |
| Unfortunately this is one of those situations where I have to be unbiased..
Everyone who was on that TC, all of them are my very close friends.
I'm not saying I support what they did to Fantageroxs. But you guys..you need to stop getting so worked up. It's over, it's done with, I know of the situation, the other staff know. I think. As a moderator, I can't ban those people for doing what they did on the tinychat. Yeah, sure, it's still the same, same people, blahdabalda practically an extension of the forum. But it's not. I can't actually ban them. It wouldn't be a fair ban, since it technically didn't happen on Fantage Forum territory.. Yeah, cyberbullying's bad. Bullying is bad. But it happens. I'm not saying it's right. Like I said, it's over, it's done with, I'm sorry this happened to Fantageroxs. I'm not mad at anyone. I feel bad I can't do anything about the situation, but I honestly, genuinely, can't.
If it happens again, it is literally OUT OF MY CONTROL. What those people do on Tinychat is their business. Not anyone else on Fantage Forum's business. So don't think I'm a crap mod for not doing anything, but I can't. If it happens again, I still can't. The only instance I can take action about would be if it were to happen on this domain.
Again, guys, I'm sorry, but that's how it's gotta be. And I can't do shiz about it, sorry. I'm really upset this happened, I'm not emotionless, it hurts me too, but I don't know what to do about it.
I'm going to lock all of the cyberbullying threads to prevent further drama. Love ya guys.
~Abbey
EDIT: Also, I was aware of the Alex and Lisa meets Patrick situation. I handled it a couple days ago. She's banned now.
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| Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:37 pm | |
| Abbey I love you for this |
| | | Link Dedicated Fantagian
Posts : 1248 Join date : 2011-08-27 Location : in hell
| Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:39 pm | |
| I LOVE YOU FOR POSTING THIS!
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| | | Abbey Former Staff
Posts : 1462 Join date : 2010-07-18 Age : 26 Location : IG @the.abbsta
| Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:42 pm | |
| You don't need to love me, I'm not doing this for you guys, I'm just saying the truth. I didn't take in your feelings in posting this, I'm just genuinely posting how it is. ^^ | |
| | | Crownie Dedicated Fantagian
Posts : 1010 Join date : 2011-09-11 Age : 28 Location : In the center of the sun.
| Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:54 pm | |
| Understood. Thank you for being unbiased. & for posting. | |
| | | Abbey Former Staff
Posts : 1462 Join date : 2010-07-18 Age : 26 Location : IG @the.abbsta
| Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:57 pm | |
| No problem.
I'm not going to lie. I feel like some of this is my fault too, since I was on chat a couple nights ago..not today, but still. And it wasn't really bad, but I wasn't doing anything about it anyway. I'm not blaming anyone, but there comes a point where you have to say, "Man. I effed up." And it's okay, everyone makes mistakes. That's how you learn.
and here, I'll say it:
I messed up.
we all messed up. but let's take this as a lesson, and not do it again. :] | |
| | | Usui Hero Fantagian
Posts : 5275 Join date : 2011-09-09 Age : 24 Location : Worldbuscus
| Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sun Oct 16, 2011 12:03 am | |
| thanks abbey for posting this <3 | |
| | | Blue Veteran Fantagian
Posts : 3257 Join date : 2011-05-04 Age : 110 Location : How am I supposed to know? D; LOCATING MYSELF IS HARD.
| Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sun Oct 16, 2011 5:01 am | |
| Yeah, thanks for posting this Abbey. I also feel kinda guilty because I may have bullied people many a times. v_v Thanks for saying this. | |
| | | Relora Hero Fantagian
Posts : 6776 Join date : 2010-11-30 Age : 27 Location : Define "Location"
| Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sun Oct 16, 2011 6:41 am | |
| Thank you for being unbiased and stating the truth much appreciated ^^ | |
| | | taehyung Veteran Fantagian
Posts : 3089 Join date : 2011-07-15 Age : 23 Location : somewhere
| Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sun Oct 16, 2011 8:45 am | |
| Thanks for telling us Here is a cookie! | |
| | | -♥Sweet19971♥- Expert Fantagian
Posts : 2042 Join date : 2011-05-11 Age : 27 Location : Find me :p
| Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sun Oct 16, 2011 8:54 am | |
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| | | Jelly Passionate Fantagian
Posts : 890 Join date : 2011-08-06 Age : 23 Location : Stalking you
| Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sun Oct 16, 2011 4:47 pm | |
| Thank you Abbey for posting this! Love ya! | |
| | | Mila Expert Fantagian
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| Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sun Oct 16, 2011 5:14 pm | |
| Tank woo for this, talk to you soon, wuv u | |
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