Recent Events..

Subject: Recent Events.. Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:36 pm

Unfortunately this is one of those situations where I have to be unbiased..

Everyone who was on that TC, all of them are my very close friends.

I'm not saying I support what they did to Fantageroxs.
But you guys..you need to stop getting so worked up.
It's over, it's done with, I know of the situation, the other staff know. I think.
As a moderator, I can't ban those people for doing what they did on the tinychat.
Yeah, sure, it's still the same, same people, blahdabalda practically an extension of the forum.
But it's not. I can't actually ban them.
It wouldn't be a fair ban, since it technically didn't happen on Fantage Forum territory..
Yeah, cyberbullying's bad.
Bullying is bad.
But it happens.
I'm not saying it's right.
Like I said, it's over, it's done with,
I'm sorry this happened to Fantageroxs.
I'm not mad at anyone.
I feel bad I can't do anything about the situation, but I honestly, genuinely, can't.

If it happens again, it is literally OUT OF MY CONTROL. What those people do on Tinychat is their business. Not anyone else on Fantage Forum's business.
So don't think I'm a crap mod for not doing anything, but I can't. If it happens again, I still can't.
The only instance I can take action about would be if it were to happen on this domain.

Again, guys, I'm sorry, but that's how it's gotta be. And I can't do shiz about it, sorry.
I'm really upset this happened, I'm not emotionless, it hurts me too, but I don't know what to do about it.

I'm going to lock all of the cyberbullying threads to prevent further drama.
Love ya guys.

~Abbey

EDIT: Also, I was aware of the Alex and Lisa meets Patrick situation. I handled it a couple days ago. She's banned now.

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Abbey I love you for this

Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:39 pm

I LOVE YOU FOR POSTING THIS!

Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:42 pm

You don't need to love me, I'm not doing this for you guys, I'm just saying the truth. I didn't take in your feelings in posting this, I'm just genuinely posting how it is. ^^

Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:54 pm

Understood. Thank you for being unbiased.
& for posting.

Subject: Re: Recent Events.. Sat Oct 15, 2011 11:57 pm

No problem.

I'm not going to lie. I feel like some of this is my fault too, since I was on chat a couple nights ago..not today, but still.
And it wasn't really bad, but I wasn't doing anything about it anyway.
I'm not blaming anyone,
but there comes a point where you have to say, "Man. I effed up."
And it's okay, everyone makes mistakes. That's how you learn.

and here, I'll say it:

I messed up.

we all messed up.
but let's take this as a lesson, and not do it again. :]